Reincarnation and parents.

Before reincarnation do we choose our parents?

Once we enter heaven this is one of the things we look at, how well we were parented and how well we parented. From that we see how many walls were thrown up and how over come them. we also see what in life was loved and done well and what was missed and could use work. Life on the other side is a lot of rehashing of the previous lifes and what could be done better or what was done right.

After much deliberation and careful planning we are led to the throne of judgement. There we are shown and must walk alone to the throne, where many sit alone awaiting judgement. There are many things which are looked at one of them is not which parents we want to have when we come back. Yet, we are able to choose what lessons we wish to learn or relive once we are reincarnated.

The parents are divinely chosen as to which would better assist in our learning. What ever lessons we are coming back to learn will start to be planned even before we are born. The environment and social walls will be set in motion normally even before childbirth. Yet, even when born we are still in the divine light. It is not until we start to see and realize what is around us that our learning begins.

Again this is my beliefs and not every ones. Thus I write it for myself and others of like mind. I hope it answered the question and as always I welcome any follow up questions or comments.

Reincarnation and Physical Apearance

Can we choose our physical appearance before we’re reincarnated?

My personal views on this matter, after readings hundreds of people and viewing many past life’s of my own, is that we can not choose our appearance for the next life. we when in front of the pearly gates choose to come back and what lessons we need to work on in the new life period. Usually this pertains more to spiritual lessons and emotional lessons, not physical.

In fact i have noticed that in heaven everyone treats each other and each thing as equals to themselves.  They work together as a combined unit for the common good of all things. It is only here in this realm that many choose certain meanings according to characteristics. It is good to remember we are spiritual beings living a human existence and at times it is best to look on that and see it isn’t the appearance that matters but the divine light within.

Now with that said it is also good to note that divinity is always watching us in every realm in every way. As such they may deem it necessary to bring someone back under a certain characteristic so that the lesson may be better learnt, not easier or harder. In this way when sitting on the throne of judgment it may also be chose by the divine powers that it may be deemed necessary to come back with certain handicaps and/or ailments. The reason for this is that all in life brings about certain lessons. One of the biggest lessons is to learn to overcome  adversities and vainess. 

These are my beliefs and as such i post them. They are not every ones I am sure. However, the answer to this question is we do not choose characteristics, we can only choose what lessons will need to be learnt in the next lifetime, the rest is up to God. I hope this helped.

 

Do you have a choice about what you’d like to achieve in your next life?

Once one enters the first stages of heaven and come our of the darkened tunnel between our energy level choices begin. Once one enters there things are often very confusing, this is why often loved ones and relatives meet us there, but not always. Sometimes no one meets us this was my experience.

However, I was not the only one to enter there at that time. There were others and those or most of those had someone meet them, soothe them and help them get accustomed to the opposite side. Now, once those people are accustomed and calmed choices do begin. Each person has to go through what they have learned, what they have achieved and what they have lost or left there in the earthly plane.

Time is not even close to being the same in the two realms, but to one each level seems to be going at the same pace. But here on earth centuries sometimes pass in the matter of months.  During the time on the other side past life’s will be explained over and over. As will all losses of loved ones, lost things and lost moments of high or low emotions.

These moments of high emotional lessons will be gone over time and time again. Almost as if to yank at your heart strings and get you yearning to reincarnate. In doing such learn and live with the people or things you left behind. However, it is also explained that these things and people you once knew do not exist as you knew them. It is though also explained that you will know them by their emotional energies, for that will remain the same.

This is actually what most choose to come back to be with, the emotional and attached feelings that were lost. This is what most decide to come back for.

Now, once the learning and reenactments are complete one will get a chance to sit on the throne of judgement, there one will be asked if there’s any reason you would like to return to earth. Words will not have to be heard or muttered, your emotions and your true feelings will be felt by the higher powers while sitting thier on that throne.

Judgement will be passed and your decisions met. With this done so is your life and lessons be chosen. You will be reincarnated to relive, love and learn those, your choices. With this now done a new tunnel will open and you will be sent back to an awaiting embryo until you are reborn.

Reincarnation

when does the soul decide to reincarnate?  Before the woman is pregnant, during, or right before the child is born?

I believe the soul decides to reincarnate even before the mother becomes pregnant. The soul is energy, which is born into a human guise. This soul energy never dies it continues through a continuous life while the bodies come and go. Each step of the souls existence is to learn a lesson of coming back into the oneness of the divine  all.

Though once the body dies we do go through a tunnel and enter the first level of heaven, where we decide what it is we learned and what it is we need to learn. It is when we sit before the golden gates upon the chair of judgment that we decide to come back. This is no easy task once ones eyes see the gates and know what lies on the other side is everything one hopes for.

Yet, one can not move forward without learning the lessons of life. We are reminded of that at every step in that first level, through learning, classes and even others that surround us while in that special place. We do choose the lessons we need to learn and learn them continuously through each life. If they are not learned before our previous death then we are doomed to repeat them til we know them in totality, hence Karma.

we then come back in a new body. Once born we are very much connected to the divine knowledge, but once we begin to see and learn, we then start to build up our walls and forget what we once knew. Then once again it is for us to awaken and reconnect through out life lessons. However, depending on how well we learned the lessons in the previous life we will reconnect to divinity faster and easier.