Soul mate relationships continued

I have received many calls on soul mate relationships lately, for spring is in the air and with it love blooms. People are ready to get out and renew old relationships or gain new hope in an upcoming one. As such, people often wonder if the person that may be coming into their energy a soul mate.

Soul mates are also called twin flames. Why is that? it is due to them being equal in energy as we are to them. They have learned the same things at the same time, but more they are in equal in spirit. When these two reconnect, as they were at one time equal parts of the same soul, they will fuse together lessons learned. As such, these two, although meeting in each life, do not get together relationship wise until each is ready to move forward into the next step of learning, not needing to be reincarnated.

Now as just said these two will meet in each life, usually to move the other into a different path of learning. The soul mate also can come back as anyone, any person, any age, any race. They will always change your life in a drastic way, for the best and usually in a spiritualistic manner. When you meet them, it Will be like seeing yourself. Sparks of old life’s may rekindle, love stronger than life will be immanent. You will be awoken spiritually in ways you only dreamed were possible. This will last for any amount of time, but not forever. thus these two being in a relationship, unless your an ascended soul, will be near impossible.Not a good thing to hear, well it gets some what better. Because, there are such people out there, for lack of a better term, I call soul matches.

Soul matches are people we meet in each life. People on the same path we are, for they have started and end with us their paths to the almighty. Thus when we meet them, they will seem very much like our soul mates. though different, they are equal, but still on a learning curve. Thus there will be arguments, there will be fights, and feeling hurt. In soul mates where there will be none, for each is spiritually above that, in soul matches the fights will happen, but as each has reached a level of understanding, they wont last long and will often be forgiven quickly. Soul matches will also be learnt in life as much as in spirit, so always there will be a lot of common beliefs between them. But, they are still learning so even there it wont be exact. Don’t fret, each will connect and learn from each other peacefully and gracefully. This is a long term relationship once met and built upon.

Now for the last, relationship that I call life. Where people meet, have some common trait and or characteristic, but more likely are rushed together by some outside source. Whether it be money, society, or what ever, these two will come together in a momentary sense of love. Love, as in the earthly form rather than in the soul searching, spiritual sense. These two will fight, and at times often, for they are both on a pathway of learning that do not connect to ones an others as well as thought at first. If these two fight it will often be harsh and severe, often unforgiving. Almost always if these two are together for longer than five years, its because something else is keeping them together.

So this type of relationship wont work? It can, and at time does, but more often that not, not… If it is to work out look to being patient with each other as they learn, lean on each other when things get tough, often it gets tough for one and then the other, be there not only in body but in spirit, in love, and inspiration. Try not to force your beliefs or ideals upon the other, for each is not learnt, but learning in one area or another. Be patient while they learn for this is often also a learning area for oneself. Try doing things together, if not what you want to do then what they like, try to make it a meditative time for both together to be one. Get your hands dirty, not sit and watch sports on TV, but garden or make something. For there is symbolism in this making or birthing of something new that will also give a rise to the relationship. Get connected to spirit… If as last resort things don’t work out, and you do part, know that each has grown in some way. Look for that growth and appreciate it, this gift does come from God, even though it wont immediately feel like it.

Soul Mate Question answered

I have waited all of my life for my soul mate. Not rushing time is very difficult but needed. I understand the problems of trying to make life happen the way you want, guiding not leading, loving unconditionally. The question is when do you know it is the right time, the right energy, the right person? When is the right time to say “I have found my soul mate, the person I have been looking for all of my life”?

This question has been asked by many during the ages, yet remains complicated to most due to the amount of books and messages out there telling of one meeting their soul-mates and staying with them arm in arm through each and every lifetime here on earth, which is in fact false. Soul-mates are  met at each development stage(life), but they are not meant to be as one til each is ready to go onto the next stage of spiritual evolution.  Which means that one need to stop looking outward for that perfect someone and start looking with in.

Many that seek to find that one that completes them, not the one that compliments. Others are still looking for the fairey tale prince or princess to fall head over heels for life with, while still others are often looking for someone that just loves them or understands them, often due to past life’sor childhood reasons (Mommy/daddy didn’t love me)…

The soul mate is not of this world or this life but of every life, and yes is met in each life. However it is often to help one move beyond and above barriers that they themselves couldn’t have overcome without said help. For example he/she may show to show you what true love is and whats is actually needed in ones self to love like they need to be loved, not just loved. But once more, one must be in love and perfect in loving ones existence enough to move beyond the human life into the next stage of spiritual life to be ready to be with their soul mate.

The person one must be ready to accept in this life is not actually the soul mate but their soul match. Someone that almost completes them in all ways, but still are not perfect themselves. These too are ones we’ve traveled with throughout life’s and are much alike in faults and other ways as we ourselves are. Meaning they fight, but they also make up quickly forgiving each other of their faults and fights each and every time. They do not stick together because they need to or make efforts to be together for ever but because of their roles and because of their likeliness to ones self stay as a unit for life once met. Often leaving others to look on and ponder “why cant I have that much love for me with someone”.

The answer there my friends must be looked at within and the finding is that they are not ready, often there work that needs to be done to complete or ready themselves for the fact there are soul matches and Yes, even a soul mate out there for each and every one of us.

Soul Mate/Match Relationships

All Broken down to their minute existence is but Divine Love.

Yet, this energy as most know can sometimes be weaker or stronger. Does this mean that one is better, more in tuned or just not trying. No one can beat or put Divinity out of their minds no matter how hard its tried. We are all creators as well as created, though we were created in the god image. With that said then though were living in this life and die in this life and can possibly put off the learning in this life(or so many think). We will live again and anything if not everything done in this life will be still in tuned in us in the next life just as it was in the previous life’s.

As many have read, soul mates as well as soul matches are people or groups of people that we have traveled with many times over in previous life’s. Yet, we grew up separately. Meaning that though the soul and energy may remain the same as we may know it, the body and its conscious and subconsious are more than likely extremely different. This is due to both growing separate and learning from societal and familial groups, where ones traits often wall in that which we were.

  Thus when we do meet our soul mates/matches we may know who they are and that we love them, but if their still walled up in life they may not know or believe in what the other is. Still we are free to love them as what we know them to be, but it takes time to find out if the other comes around and it definitely takes time to know whom they now are. We still are able to love them and be one in the universe with our selves, but by not letting them have the time to see us for us then we may change the outcome of the relationship by rushing the outcome and changing the energy.

The answer lies in time, we often meet to get the other or others to open to divine energy and in doing such possibly get them into a higher level of thinking. Though this is no small trick, when this happens one must guide not lead. More time than not what one has the other has not. Whether one is guided to the now, while the others head lies in the clouds, we are always there for a reason. Though it may not always be the reason one or the other or both may want.

However, time is not any enemy in times like these for both mates or matches travel life’s hand in hand. Time is a friend, once these two meet very seldom do they part. Yet, often they separate never shall they leave as their energy and memories will always remain fresh. Take the time to learn, not by asking questions but by living and seeing and breathing what the other is in the now, not in the then.

 Keep a stiff upper lip for things may not work out as they are hoped for, and never try to change the other person. Just be there, guide them and love them. Never, lead them by words or actions but by examples. Show them love and that love just isn’t a 4 letter word. Show them that divinity lies in ones heart and mind not in a 5 letter book or societal scenery. Always be there for them, never leave, just guide and let divine powers take the course. Hope this helped ~peace and god speed to your true awakening

Divine Love

Divine Love is finding someone that complements you not completes you.

This meaning has come to me recently more than ever with the meeting of a new someone. Its much more important to be complete in yourself and not to depend on another to fill you completely. In finding all of you you are truly free to see another with fresh eyes and love in your heart. Ive seen to many couples life’s fall apart because they weren’t sure of themselves and in being unsure they looked at the other person to complete them, when they didn’t they blamed the ones they loved for their life falling to pieces.

Soul mates and even soul matches are people that we’ve lived life times of peace with. Yet, they never completed us, they just accepted us for what we were and allowed each other to grow. Sometimes not as a couple as many like to think, but as mother and daughter or father and son, even at times just as great and very close friends. Either way the energy around these people could not only be felt but seen by even the faintest of spiritualy trained eyes. Yet, even these two mates have times that one is learning what the other has already learnt. Thus again they are not there to complete but to complement each other.

One can never be too spoiled with the love and caring of another, it is infact a perfect way to help them grow. It seems over time many if not all get to some point in their life where they feel love is but a 4 letter word. These people often need the highest amount of caring of a fellow person.  I too fell into this trap until recently thinking that someone in my past was my end all to be all, only to quickly take a glance and see things in life get better with Divine blessings of a new person.

 When one begins to work on themselves and not look for things outside themselves true callings in the divine will present themselves. The Angels and Divine light will send you that someone which is needed in your life to help you move even further forward into a true Awakening. Whether that person be a teacher, a friend or a lover. It is wise to not look for that person to complete you but know through working on you you are being watched from heaven above and things will be set in motion for that person to come into your life, once it becomes time for it to happen and that trying to rush that person into existence only sends your personal energy outward away from the true work at hand.

 Though it is important to note that things will show in dreams or even through other people to make you aware of the type of people the Divine may be sending, just to make you cherish the sent person well advance of them coming. Thus look into your dreams, your visions and your past hurts and keep a mental list of what is needed in that true soul match or mate and when they come they will fit every bill that is needed not wanted in another, but that which is needed must be found in you first. Everything when this person comes will be seen in both people equally as two people, but at the same time as one, as complements to their Divine futures. ~peace and many Blessings