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I lost my soulmate, what do I do now?

Posted by Brian on January 26, 2011

First thing to do is not to panic, we all have several Soul Mates that we meet along the pathway which is life. Each comes and goes when it is their time, most if any rarely stay with us for long. Although occasionally we meet our one true love, the one we have loved and long for throughout eternity. These too come and go, but occasionally stay for longer periods of time.  It is good to remember not all Soul Mates that come in to our lives are our star-crossed lovers.

Soul Mates are groups of people who have traveled through out time with us. Often learning and after the same paths as ourselves. Yes, a few of this group are definitely our lovers but not all. Some could pop into our lives just to change them, to make us see things we wouldn’t have at any other time. Although these mates are on a spiritual level it is good to remember when were here on earth we all are still human. “we are spiritual beings walking a human path”….

What to do is sit back and count your blessings for meeting a Soul Mate, figure out why they came into your life. What did they change in you,any new ideas, feelings etc.

Then look with in and see if you were ready to meet your star-crossed lover, your mirrored soul mate. In order to meet and be with the one you’ll love for eternity, you must be ready and able to deal and trust yourself first. his has nothing to do with money or material things. But, are you ready to live in unconditional love and trust, can you forgive and forget-we are all human, we get angry or grieve but when the moments over can you forget and forgive. Can you absolutely look at yourself and see you are te angelic being you were meant to once again become… When you are and can live with your self, sit back and be reassured your Soul Mate is on their way.

Id also keep a journal listing all your good and positive qualities, then list what you want in the other. See if there’s anything you want in the other that you may be lacking. if there are things lacking in you, are they ego, wants, needs, etc. You are perfect, you are the way god intended if you see you as perfect and you want nothing in your mate that you do not already hold inwardly then you will be well on your way to finding the Soul Mate you have always been looking for…..

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Do Soul Mates Bring out the best as well as the worst in each other?

Posted by Brian on January 22, 2011

Just a quick look at the new intuitive spirit this month and one can easily see where the weather changes have many people thoughts and hearts. Yes, it is nearly February and Valentines day, so once again we get another great love question from the internet and one of our many devoted readers.

Yes, ones soul mate can and often does bring out not only the best but the worst in their Soul partner. The reason even though we might have found our one true love, Soul Mate, we are still all still very much human and most people well they do not take to change very well. Remember, the main reason a soul mate comes into the picture is to change us, our perspectives, our lives, they are and have met us to make us or wake us to the true spirit we can and will become.

“We are Spiritual Beings walking a Human Existence” We were brought from heaven into this life to lift us above all things human and bring us back into the spiritual light which is our lord in Heaven. Once all life as we know it was of that energy plain, we were all once one. Yet, through gaining a very much, shall we say human perspective on things and losing the unconditional love that we once, not only felt but we were. We came to this level, this plane of existence to learn to become once again what we were, Spiritual Beings-True unadulterated Unconditional Love.

Our Soul Mates come into our lives to teach us, to even us out. They are our Mirrors, they are us in almost every way possible. Can you live with yourself 24/7. Most people, not saying all, but most can not. How then can we live with another that as lead separate lives, that have separate ideas and yes separate issues with out fighting. We are all still human, Soul Mates do not coming in just so one person or the other changes, but the meeting of the two lift each other higher and brings perfection of both in to fruition. Yes, they lift us up, they change us and many times leave us.

 We must be ready and in total love for ourselves and with ourselves before the two partners meet. If we are not ready and can not accept the changes they bring then, guess what the worst is brought out. We must be ready for change and rapid change when a soul mate is met, because if one can not over see the worst, one can not be brought in to the mere perfection the Soul Mates, love partners can bring to one another.

Soul mates are our Mirrors, one may be left-handed the other one right-handed, one may be well to do the other poor, one partner may be spiritual the other well versed in life, the list goes on and on. But, look beyond the human things, the material and look beyond-what do you see. One should see a perfect strong of continued and although separate, common paths. Soul Mates attitudes, meanings, lives are darn near the same. The way they communicate, live are damn near perfectly aligned. Yet, because they have both lived separate lives and have separate minds and hurts, they will fight. This is why a Soul Mate is not brought into a partners life until it is time.

Can you imagine finding one so perfect and not being ready in your self…. I hope this helped answer this question

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How many life times are Soul mates said to follow their partner?

Posted by Brian on January 14, 2011

Soul mates are not just one people, but s group of people that we were brought into existence with. We travel each and every lifetime with our soul mates, or at least some of them. Each time one or more of our soul mate group meet it moves us closer towards the reason we are here on earth, the reunification with God through our own perfect soul. 

The reason it moves us closer, is that it brings us once again into the loving arms of not only our mate but with our true self. “We are Spiritual Beings Living a Human Existence.” We each live over and over again different life times of new and often old experiences, think Karma. Some times we get stuck repeating over and over again the same old karmic cycles of experiences, this is where our Soul Mates come into becoming such a major player in change. They change us, they open our eyes to what is and change our experiences in and out of ourselves-their a boost from the lord almighty to help us break from our cycles and get us on track.

With this said, not every soul mate is our true love, some are simply there for that cosmic boot to move us back on track and towards the light of God. However, there are those that are Soul mates that are there for love, compassion to share life with-these are mostly what people speak about when they think of soul mates. These soul mates are few and far between, often most people don’t find them in a lifetime. However, sometimes they do and when they do, one look into this persons eyes will bring a world of flooding of emotions and longing into both partners that simply will not diminish over the passing of time.

How do we meet our soul mates, ready yourself-these types of soul mates do not simply seem, they are brought into our existence when the timing is right and when we have worked on what we are here to work on, whether that be love and compassion or to break ourselves from the cycle of earthly things. Whats funny here is that although these two partners have almost to a T followed the same time lines and lives, they are usually mirrors of each other in how they have done it. Soul mates are perpetual mirrors of ourselves that together found a substance harder than diamond and greater, more rewarding than anything one could ever dream of.

Love Soul Mates do not just seem, they are a gift from God. thus they can not be simply sought out, they are not until we have totally worked on ourselves, the reason our mates have shown is to bring us closer to perfection of our true  selves and each other. Once united with our true loving soul mate, lives quickly change and become one. Once these two meet they can not be parted with out heart ache, these two once met are inseparable…. They are mirrors, two sides of one coin that together form a solid foundation of greater substance and rewards.

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How To Recognize a Soul Mate Relationship

Posted by Brian on January 11, 2011

If you believe in soul mate relationships and are not quite sure about the relationship you are in, is it or is it not, these few simple ways to recognize a soul mate relationship might just help you out….. And remember we all at some point question the relationship were in, we are all only human. So, take these as you will and I hope it opens your eyes as they have opened mine to what is in front of me each time I peer into my angels eyes…

In order to know your soul mate you first know yourself.. This is easier said than done, for we all think we know ourselves. But, just how well do we? 

Keep a log or journal and make a list of all your traits, likes and dislikes and then read them and see how they change or if they change. A soul mate and often many soul mates have travelled with us through out time, some are meant to be with us for life, others come to just hurry up the human process and move us faster towards the oneness with God. However, we all are alike in more ways than not. So, if there’s something you don’t like about you it might be in them, before you meet it is the time to ready your self to be the one you would most like to meet-Think mirror….

2. Soul mates relationships are well-balanced, strong and positive relationships

With this said I want to emphasize that we are all human, every one fights, or at least most do, fights are often what makes us go hmm! and think, it is a way of learning. We are all human and have all had human lives, just because you might have found your sense of heaven it doesn’t mean everything will always be perfect. But, often the fights or arguments do not last, they are quickly forgiven and both learn from them equally. The fights are times of growth for both equally and they are never ever held on to long.. Through this troubled water a well-balanced, strong healthy bonding relationship is formed . Never ever, is manipulation or intimidation used-always even after an argument a soul mate can hold each other tight and feel safe in each others arms

3. A soul Mate relationship is a natural fit and feel as if it were given to you as a gift from God..

This is probably the hardest to understand, for if you are looking for a natural fit and wanting it just as eagerly any fit will feel as if it were the one. But, as my grandmother used to say a soul mate will present themselves when you are not looking and only when you are ready for them to appear in your life. Not before and definitely will not happen if forced. Take your time work on you, know what you want in yourself first, then enjoy… Remember a soul mate is you, a mirror image, many times going through the same life in many ways not always, but many… Often once found soul mates will feel like mirror images in how life has unfolded, the word mirror image is profound…

I have heard many people speak on finding their one true soul mate and living happily ever after with them. A good majority of them have also spoke about how their life’s, their paths, their vacation spots and so on and so on have matched equally. However, one mate is left-handed while the other one is right-handed or how one has succeeded in life while the other has barely scraped by. Read, research the net and see the countless unbound stories of such, but it is well to remember you are equal and each has come into their partners life to make a fantastic journey together equally, not unequally… Each will rise the other where the other has not yet risen high enough, whether it be in love and trust, or in finances and structures both will only gain and join together equally in the end

4.  A Soul Mate relationship is filled with honesty and support

Again we are all only human and have each led different lives. The past is the past, the future with a soul mate is a fantastic journey together, forget the past and look ahead… It is also wise to state here that soul mates are mirrors of ourselves and as being such words do not have to be said, it’s almost as if they know our hearts, our minds and can read each like a book….

5. Soul mate relationships are healthy. passionate and loving..

When you meet your soul mate one will quickly realize that this is the person you have dreamt about all your life. It can not help but be loving and compassionate, does this mean no fighting? Absolutely not, we are all only human, but it does mean that things are not held on to and the arguments are quickly subsided and found to be growing experiences to be built upon… Love and romance are always there, they are everything we have ever hoped for in another and in us and now that it has been found to fight with the partner seems to be a fight with ourselves. Love and compassion are ever-present and together a lot can get and is done

6.  A soul mate will accept who you are, bring out the best in you, challenge you and enjoy in watching you succeed..

They are not trying to change you, they are opening you further into who you are. They know you often better than you know yourself as already stated above, as such they will challenge you to be the you your supposed to be. They will bring your dreams into fruition as you will bring theirs, both enjoying every step along the way. Each step bringing you closer to God and the perfection he has brought you forth to be…

7. Soul Mates enjoy every moment their together and cherish their commitment to each other…..\you are the only apple in their eye, there will never be another……

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